Here is a person who could not make it to
Cambridge!!!
After securing admission to Cambridge the financial
conditions did not allow him to go there. However this situation did not deter
his self belief. He became determined to solve an even larger problem – how others
with limited financial resources did not meet with similar fate. He went on to
establish an academy of highly intelligent young people and he helped them
coach for one of the toughest exams in the country. Through diligence and
belief, he successfully started help 30 people every year gain admission to
IITS. This person, Anand of Super 30, helps nurture and develop promising
children from Bihar achieve dreams of best education in the country.
WHO DO YOU BELIEVE IN ?
When you want to do something – who do you go to for advise
? Who decides whether you should attend school tomorrow – is it your friend ?
Who decides which shoes to buy ? A
friend who bought some shoes. Which
movie should you watch after the exams ? is it a friend, or a newspaper
columnist or the Radio DJ. What should you eat
- does a parent decide that for you.
We are surrounded by advise – interestingly only a small
part of it comes from you. Most of the time it is either a parent, friend,
office colleague, TV anchor, neighbour, extended family and the list goes on
and on. The world is full of commentators, advisors, analysts – the recipient
is YOU. Is a world filled with abundance of information and advise – the person
who gets forgotten is YOU. And in case
YOU – do decide to act on your own – there is enough people working to prove
you WRONG, and tell you that you are not capable of taking your own decisions.
Just like we often learn by contradictions – by doing the
reverse of what our parents or boss tell us, it is time to figure out and put your
own thinking cap. Each time you need to make a decision small or big, give it a
thought and then Act of your own belief.
Irrespective of whether the outcome is positive or negative, you would
have started giving your brain exercise – and developed a THINKING network –which
can help you take your own decisions. These decisions will help you INCREASE
your OWN Confidence and BELIEF.
Imagine if you will NOT BELIEVE in YOURSELF – how can you
expect someone else to believe in you. Next time, you are trying to get up on
time, or avoid eating high calorie food – remember YOU CAN DO IT – you just
need to make a commitment to yourself that you BELIEVE in yourself. In case you
do let yourself DOWN, by not following through – remember to confront
yourself and be accountable for the
outcome. By palming off responsibility for failure to someone else – you are
only lowering your self belief.
…And when you do succeed – remember to PAUSE – and PAT
yourself - YOU Should be the first one PATTING YOURSELF for your SUCCESSES. Its
important to recognize success and make it a habit of repeating small
successes, and slowly but surely converting them to big ones.
As the story of Anand
shows, often what separates us from SUCCESS is BELIEF in ourselves. Our own confidence can stand the greatest
adversity. As the saying goes
“Where there is a WILL,
there is A WAY”,
and
“When going GETS TOUGH, the
TOUGH gets GOING”.